Paul Burrell, Princess Diana’s former butler, has suggested that Prince Harry’s feelings of being overlooked and the resulting rivalry with Prince William may have stemmed from childhood experiences, possibly related to food.
During their early years, Burrell mentioned that William received special treatment from their nanny, who once remarked to William about needing to eat more to become a strong king in the future, giving him extra sausages. This incident left a young Harry feeling left out and questioning why he received fewer sausages than his brother.
Burrell, who began his royal service at Buckingham Palace at 18 and later served Princess Diana, witnessed the dynamics between the royal brothers firsthand. He noted that Harry always felt like he was in William’s shadow, even when they met in their early 20s.
Despite Harry’s reported bitterness, he was known for his easygoing and jovial nature, as shared by the princes’ former royal protection officer, Ken Wharfe. Royal biographer Robert Jobson also highlighted Harry’s complex character, suggesting that beneath his cheerful facade, he struggled with his public role.
Harry and Meghan Markle departed from their royal duties in 2020, leading to an escalation in tensions with the royal family, especially William. Their rift widened following public statements and interviews, including a tell-all with Oprah Winfrey and the release of a documentary series on Netflix.
Efforts at reconciliation have been made, with Harry traveling to London for a brief visit in early September. Despite intentions to mend relationships, there has been no indication of a meeting between William and Harry. However, there is a growing sense that reconciliation between Harry and his father, King Charles, may be possible.
Privacy and dignity are prioritized in this potential reunion, aiming for a simple, private conversation between father and son. While there is hope for a resolution between Charles and Harry, any chances of reconciliation between Harry and William have been dismissed outright.